When people reach a state of joy, they don't desire or require any
help to stay there, because they feel it will last forever. It doesn’t.
When
people reach a state of depression, they desire and require help to
transcend that state, because it feels like it will last forever. It
doesn't.
No emotional state
of being lasts forever, despite how it may feel to the contrary. There
is a dominant personal vibration which is unique to yourself, which you
will always return to. This state of being
is established by your experiential pattern of growth, which is
responsible for your current and ever-changing system of beliefs.
It is out of your belief
system that you interact with the rest of the world. Generally
speaking, if you are in constant conflict with your environment, then
your beliefs about life and subsequent actions, will be considerably vibrationally lower or higher than those of the people around you.
Many
people are engaged in the activity of helping people feel better about
life and themselves, as a vocation. These people range from the medical
profession, to religious leaders, to life coaches and healers.
To
be effective as a helper to another person, you need to recognize the
cause of discontent before you can seek to alter the state of being of
another person. Otherwise it is the case of the blind leading the blind.
As
a healer or helper, if you continue to experience the same symptoms
which you are trying to alleviate in another, then you have to ask
yourself if you "own" what you are trying to give another? We will for
our purposes assume that you do own that state of being, which you are
trying to extend to another.
In working with emotionally distraught people you need to understand fully, a few key points about the mind and reality.
The
first point is that no two people will react identically to the same
external stimulus. This tells you that the people involved must be
placing their own meaning on that external stimulus, otherwise all
reactions would be identical.
Therefore, when you are helping
people emotionally recover from some incident or series of
circumstances, you should realize that you are dealing with beliefs,
which are the cause of their discontent.
Even
in case where people lose arms or legs or other body parts, the
variations in the way that people deal with those realities, varies
amongst individuals, due to their dominant personal vibration which is
fueled by each persons beliefs.
The
second point that some one who is a helper would benefit from is that,
if you share the same beliefs as your client, then you are in a position
to be compassionate, but are not qualified to do for another, what you
have failed to do for yourself.
As a helper your beliefs need to
extend beyond compassion and love in order to provide to your client an
alternate way of looking at the world, otherwise you've relegated
yourself to being merely a commercial hand holder.
This
means that as a helper, you should start opening your mind to higher
vibrational levels of thought, which are capable of developing a system
of beliefs within you, that can potentially lead your clients to higher
states of well-being.
To test
where you're at with your beliefs I will cite two examples of belief
which are in stark contrast to the beliefs held in the general
population.
The first belief is that each person gives life
and all circumstances encountered in life, all the meaning that it
holds for them. In other words, life has no preconceived meaning, (which
is not the same as saying that life has no value).
The second belief is that there is no such thing as special relationships at vibrationally
higher levels of existence. And while we recognize them here on earth,
if they do not exist in higher realms of reality, then for all intents
and purposes, they do not exist at all.
Now if either of
these two beliefs create any conflict within you, then it is an
indication that as good as your intentions are toward your clients, your
beliefs are too close to those of the general population and your
client, to permanently correct their errors in thinking.
Dysfunctions
of the body are more often than not, caused by energy disruptions at
the cellular level, as a result of years of emotional stress. Mental and
emotional health
can not be reached and maintained from a delusional state of beliefs,
and all beliefs which are based in ego thought, instead of the ultimate reality of God are delusional.
This
is not to say that those who desire to help others need to be perfect
to do so. Being a loving and compassionate person places you head and
shoulders above the crowd, however if you want to round third base and
slide into home, you can't languish in the conformity of your beliefs.
Social
consciousness is the cause of discontent, not the cure, and to be a
helper to others each person's beliefs need to rise far above the level
of conformity.
Have you ever wondered
how a person could see a psychiatrist for years and make such slow
progress? The reason is that both the client and the professional share
the same basic beliefs about life, and as a result they share more
commonalities than differences.
How can you give someone a drink of
water if you don't know where the well is?
The choice then
to help others can be motivated by love or ego, and those who hold fixed
positions of belief are usually motivated by ego. Loving individuals
are usually willing to try anything, that could potentially enhance
their ability to serve others in a superior fashion.
In conclusion then, nothing in life has any preconceived meaning. Life is always exactly as God designed and intended it to be. It is not now, nor ever, was out of God's control. Each persons interpretation of life moves them either farther away from, or closer to, the revelation of God, who is life itself.